Happy Mother's day- A lady wife or mother first

Happy mother's day to all mothers. A lady plays different roles throughout her life. First- A lovely daughter, A wife, daughter in law, and very important role of A Mother. 

Its saying that " Motherhood makes a lady complete" its not because someone want to demean other roles of lady but the unbounded and string free love comes naturally when she becomes mother.

Not every time but quite few time A Mother role conflicts with a role of Wife, especially when all wants her attention.

So my main topic of this blog is sharing my ideas about- A lady- Wife or Mother first. 

          Although a lady is considered as multi talented and multi tasked. She can perform several task like- watching TV soaps, talking on phone, cooking etc together with ease. She can very accurately predicts mood of husband or near and dear ones, yet when comes to play a role between a equally challenging role of wife and mother, so many if not all lady somewhat struggle to balance it. In this process all of her relation suffers. Its not only her relations suffers but it is herself who suffer the most, in the hope that all will end well. 

   Mother is a very unique, lovely and wonderful word. Whenever ones get hurt normally s/he remembers her/his mother first. why?? on the other side if someone gets surprise s/he says PAPA!!

First question first- Mother as epitome of unbounded love and care toward her children gets remembered first whenever one needs love and care. Mother loves children without any strings attached to it.  So a person remembers Mother first when s/he gets hurt. 

Its very usual to see when a kid playing with toy and you give him a new toy, he forgets old toy and start playing with new. Same rules apply here with a lady - wife and mother. When she was only wife her full world revolves around her husband, but as new guest arrives her focus shifts. Now with new little bundle of joy she along with all in family plays and takes care of new guest. Slowly everyone starts to take care of their respective life and responsibilities but a mother always think how unprotected her kid is from all strong world and people. Even when s/he grows old for mother s/he is always a kid and mother takes care of her/his in whatever way possible with time. 

In this whole process a Husband gets neglected if not lost. Earlier he was world to her lady love but now a kid become center stage. This creates a friction between a wife and husband who although understanding new attention of his lady love but at same time wants some of her attention for himself. Slowly these friction becomes parts of life. The couples who were very much in love, now seems fighting all the time. 

So whats the solution??

Although Motherhood makes woman complete, in life all relations are equally important. A lady was a wife first and mother later. Motherhood was achieved because of love between husband and wife. 

Like lady manages all works be it her official work, or soaps or phone or cooking, she needs to manage all relations also with ease. Whenever situation arises she needs to pause, think and acts both a Mother as well as Lovely wife. There can be various ways to achieve perfection but relationship is very delicate and needs to nurture with love as at the end of day its your relation with husband remains equally important as with your kids.