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How to Deal with stubborn Kids

  My last blog was about how to handle kids. In this blog I will especially deals with problems of Stubborn kids and best parenting methods for the tactfully overcome them. Most of people some or other times comes across some stubborn kids, be it their own kids, or relative or even some time stranger kid while shopping or in restaurants or somewhere. So, what is exactly meaning of stubborn.       As per   Google dictionary  "Having or showing dogged determination not to change one's attitude or position on something, especially in spite of good arguments or reasons to do so."     As per Merriam Webster "   1.     unreasonably or perversely unyielding  :  MULISH 2.       justifiably unyielding  :  RESOLUTE Actually, it is very much inaccurate and unfair to call only kids as Stubborn. Stubborn person can be any person depending upon the circumstance. Norm...

How to deal with Kids

How to handle Kids            Time immemorial people handles kids in their own way or what they have learned from their own childhood experiences/ societal norms etc. And maximum of them handles well in their own way. The people reading this blog may remember that till one or two decades back even physical punishments was considered as norm, and so many friends will say that because of harsh punishments we all grown into successful personas. Its individual opinion.            What was considered as norm earlier like physical punishment now considered by law as CRIME. And actually, speaking I agree with this law. Kids needs to be protected from physical harm. So many of us in moments of heat/ anger lose our Control/ Calm on ourselves and hit the kid with whatever we have in hand. Some time it may be by bare hand, sometime it may with wooden thin stick, some time with kitchen tools (especially lovely mommies’ favori...

Happy Mother's day- A lady wife or mother first

Happy mother's day to all mothers. A lady plays different roles throughout her life. First- A lovely daughter, A wife, daughter in law, and very important role of A Mother.  Its saying that " Motherhood makes a lady complete" its not because someone want to demean other roles of lady but the unbounded and string free love comes naturally when she becomes mother. Not every time but quite few time A Mother role conflicts with a role of Wife, especially when all wants her attention. So my main topic of this blog is sharing my ideas about- A lady- Wife or Mother first.            Although a lady is considered as multi talented and multi tasked. She can perform several task like- watching TV soaps, talking on phone, cooking etc together with ease. She can very accurately predicts mood of husband or near and dear ones, yet when comes to play a role between a equally challenging role of wife and mother, so many if not all lady somewhat struggle to ba...